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From: guest (BSCD) , 6 months, post #1
Friends, this is my first time writing here, after years just looking, i need help from you people. Just like everyone here (or almost everyone) i have the same fetish. I like do CD and i would be thrill to became a woman.

My problem is i have an GF and i love her so much, but she doenst know my this "side". Currently i live alone and i want her to come live with me. Two weekes ago i was close to tell her about all of this, but i got scare.
If she come life with me, i cant hide anymore (i own a few woman clothes myself). I dont know what to do, i never tell anyone this festish.

I'm lost.

(bear with me, english is not my main language)

From: Holly Dunn , 6 months, post #2
Gender dysphoria is a real condition, and not just a fetish. My suggestion is to seek professional help with a therapist and get some support for who you are as a person. It may significantly change your relationships with some people. Hopefully, there is support for you out there. Your feelings are really normal, as is anything caused by biology. There are wide variations of sexuality, and just because you feel this way doesn't mean you have to transition or anything. Find some support, and be the best you that you can be!

From: hskfmn , 6 months, post #3
I couldn’t imagine being in your position, so I really don’t have any great advice to offer…what I will say however is that if you truly care for your girlfriend, you have to do what’s fair to her. I’m not telling you what to do or not do, but whatever you ultimately decide, if you care about her happiness, consider that attempting to “fake” your way through a relationship could very well cause a lot of stress, animosity, and emotional pain between you. Analyze the situation carefully…but don’t discount the possibility that trying to stay together while not being honest with her could end up being very detrimental to your relationship.

Just something to consider.

From: MissMako , 6 months, post #4
I can sympathize with you being scared to speak about this to others. Fear and rejection are powerful concepts that can control our own forward momentum. I know from personal experience.

I was diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria after decades of ignoring the warning signs and convincing myself "it's only a phase/fetish". Thankfully I am on year 7 of my transition (and have never been happier)

Holly Dunn is right... best to seek professional help with a therapist before jumping to any conclusions one way or another about your own situation. But I have discovered keeping things like this from people only made me increasingly miserable as time went on.

- Miss Mako -

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