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From: guest (CuriousChris)
, 57 months, post #1 |
I’m 20 almost 21, so I’m fairly young. I’ve only ever had one
relationship and I never told her about my mtf/ftm/body swap
fetish. I have crossdressed and masturbated at the thought of being
a woman. Hell I even thought about body swapping and fucking my own
body. Anyways I don’t think it would be something a woman would be
interested in. I know the crossdressing alone off puts women, so I
think my Mtf/ftm/body swap fetish wouldn’t be accepted or fulfilled
in a relationship with one. I’ve thought about just covering it up
as being a submissive with a humiliation fetish, but that’s not
what it is. It’s something else entirely.
How about you all? Ever told a partner? If you did how’d they react
and how did things go forward? If you haven’t what are you
concerned about? Also should this fetish be shared at all or kept
hush hush?
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From: guest (Wants2beher)
, 57 months, post #2 |
@CuriousChris - pretty much in the same boat as you but I'm older
and have been married for a while. It came up when we were dating
as 'What's your deep dark fantasy?'. I told her that if a genie
popped up we would trade bodies. 'That's weird' which was the end
of the conversation. I would keep it hush hush unless you're
watching something that has a body swapping theme and they seem
interested. BTW I still have the same deep dark fantasy.
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From: guest (Should Be Beverly)
, 57 months, post #3 |
Am never married, but have had plenty of girlfriends.
If you met me in person, you would find a fairly masculine guy, who
very much thinks and acts like a guy.
But all my life I have dreamed my secret dream of being female,
with very female thoughts, desires and emotions.
Have never told anyone and fear someone would find out
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From: guest
, 57 months, post #4 |
No. I didn't share it with my wife. At most we've occasionally
discussed while drunk what we'd do if we both switched genders one
day, but that's it.
Since a lot of the stuff I enjoy, transformation, tg, size, could
be construed in a wrong way, it's easier to just keep it to myself
than avoid misunderstanding.
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From: guest
, 57 months, post #5 |
One partner was not happy with crossdressing, but she tolerated it
(and we went clothes shopping together), but other women have been
even more supportive. I am 100% hetero, but have been out in public
on multiple occasions (in costume, so crossplay). That is probably
the best way to approach it, ask if she would help you do a costume
for an event, and judge her reaction.
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From: guest (Kiyohime)
, 57 months, post #6 |
I find gender bender media interesting and I'm pretty open about
it. the worst thing for me is when people get bored of my yammer.
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From: guest (Kiyohime)
, 57 months, post #7 |
Also I'm single,I don't know why I posted here?
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From: guest (Lucky)
, 57 months, post #8 |
My wife knows most of the stuff about my fetish and is into similar
stuff as well. I have nice silicone breast forms and she has a
silicone packer that we've used before when doing things to sort of
switch roles even. I wear the breast forms and dress somewhat girly
around the house (Bra, leggings, thinh and hip pads) and she's cool
with it too. She's bisexual, so I guess that makes it less weird. I
was nervous to tell her about it before, but it's probably one of
my favorite parts of our relationship nowadays.
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From: guest (Jayzie)
, 57 months, post #9 |
I'm not very popular with the ladies, I've only ever had one gf and
it was short lived.
The only person I've ever considered telling was my best friend,
and one work friend who is bi. However, I'd never tell my best
friend because I wouldn't want to change the dynamic between us. It
works better this way and it's not something that needs to be
discussed.
It would be funny to find out some day that we did have the same
fetish. Also, I had a dream where I was female and pregnant with
his child. I obviously can't tell anyone about that can I? Lol.
Also, I can't tell the work friend because there's a high chance
he'd tell my best friend. Awkward all around.
It would be nice if I had a gf and we were on the level where I
could tell her this sort of thing, but I highly doubt that will
happen. I'll likely take this to the grave with me if I can help it
and don't drunkenly slip up.
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From: cj
, 56 months, post #10 |
Hetero Male, Never Married, OLD.
Told two gals I dated about my interest / curiosity in being
female. Never made it to a second date.
Nearly every ex of a serious relationship knows about my curiosity
- a few find it strange - but only for one has it changed (just
slightly) how she sees our relationship (past relationship).
My best friend (hetero male, etc. etc.) - I confided in him once.
He was slightly disturbed and told me he didn't want to know.
Conversation was dropped. Still best friends - we just don't talk
about it.
My family knows - changed nothing - father doesn't want to talk or
hear about it though.
I have a few other friends who know. Most are supportive. One was
turned-on (hetero female, single at the time, very open-minded).
But we don't talk about this much.
Many times I will broach the subject if there's something that
calls out a difference between men and women, that's in public...
in small-town conservative USA. Usually as a joke or question.
Sometimes as "I once had a dream like that"
Not sure that any of the above know the depth to which this
curiosity has driven me (outside my therapists)... and really, they
don't need to know. Unless and until the relationship is at that
level of commitment / intimacy. At that point they need to know.
As for CD... I would never pass, and I'm in small-town conservative
USA... so that's not going to happen outside of locked doors and
blacked-out windows.
Pick your moment and choose well who you disclose to. Hope this
helps.
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From: cj
, 56 months, post #11 |
Maybe that should've read "... to whom you disclose." I'm not a
literary genius. :-)
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From: guest
, 56 months, post #12 |
as with any other fetish, it's going to be weird to the average
outsider. i would never feel the need to share such a bizarre part
of life with anyone, just seems kind of unnecessary.
though if i had an SO, i could see the intrigue of opening up about
that if i felt comfortable with it. like if i didn't think i'd be
judged
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From: guest
, 56 months, post #13 |
I haven't, no. But the other day I talked with a fat lady on tinder
who made it very clear she wanted to sit on me and quote-unquote
flatten me into a pancake.
Fetishes are weird. And in our lord's year of 2019, where trans
people are becoming more accepted by society each day, there are
weirder fetishes out there than wanting to become part of the
opposite sex.
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From: guest
, 56 months, post #14 |
i don't think it's our place to judge others or their fetishes, but
other than that i agree. i guarantee you plenty of people think
we're freaks, and we're no better if we close our minds
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From: cj
, 56 months, post #15 |
How you see your interest in TF/TG makes a difference too. Mine is
more curiosity than fetish, and I treat it as such. I always
describe mine as an interest or a curiosity or a passing thought,
than I do as a prime motivator, fetish, or kink.
That may have much to do with my ability to share it more
readily... without negative impact, than others have / have
experienced.
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