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From: guest (surewater)
, 68 months, post #1 |
Hi, I am mostly a lurker here and in other TF/TG communities. I
have been having this interest (fetish?) for half of my life, and
since a while I feel it has been destructive to my romantic and
sexual life. It's become an addiction and I'm considering getting
help.
In no way I think that such fantasies are 'wrong' or 'unhealthy'...
It's just the way it has affected my mind.
I've tried to quit a few time these last month, unsuccessfully.
Along with professional help, I think sharing my story with other
people with the same experience. I've seen a few post of others
with a similar addiction and it gave me a great deal of help and
hope.
Also, I wanted to thank all as I felt a silent member of a sort of
community here in metamorphose.org, where I could find not only
content and suggestions but also a safe and friendly place.
thank you all,
d.
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From: guest
, 68 months, post #2 |
get lost, traitor.
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From: guest
, 68 months, post #3 |
surewater, if your relationships in the real world are more
important to you, that's healthy. I think you'll be OK. Good luck
to you.
Of course, you'll miss out on quality time with poster #2...
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From: guest
, 68 months, post #4 |
Guest #2 doesn't speak for all of us, lol.
What's healthy for one person can be unhealthy for someone else. Go
do what you need to do to be healthy. Thank you for the gracious
exit.
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From: guest (hi)
, 68 months, post #5 |
I'm happy to hear about your decision. I honestly have felt the
same way about this as well for a while. I've always wrote TG and
TG fiction, which was fine I guess when I was single, but now that
I'm in a committed relationship with somebody who I whole I love I
always feel guilty when I go onto a writing binge to get it out of
my system.
I don't feel bad about the fetish, people have fetishes, some
vanilla some more exotic, but I feel bad because whenever I go
through periods of releases like this I can't tell my SO. I've
kinda accepted that this is just something I have to live with and
do it in moderation.
I love my SO, and our sex life is great, but there are some
fantasies that are literally impossible to fulfill, no matter how
intimate we are.
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From: guest
, 68 months, post #6 |
oof. I'm glad I'll probably die single. I don't wanna let go of
this fetish; I don't think I would be able to, tbh.
Good luck, OP. I'll be rooting for you!
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From: Golvanious
, 68 months, post #7 |
Everything in moderation, right?
In all seriousness, if it's really taking a toll on you in the form
of an addiction, I think the best thing would be to step away from
it and refocus priorities. Thankfully, you seem to be on that
track, so best of luck and I hope it all works out for you. :)
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