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From: guest (halfharpy)
, 99 months, post #1 |
Why is it there are many male to female transformation stories but
so few of female to male transformation. This is not fair.
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From: guest
, 99 months, post #2 |
What is fair? It's not like MtF fiction writers are trying to hurt
somebody because of their sexuality or fetishes....
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From: guest (Dan)
, 99 months, post #3 |
Maybe you should write some FtM fiction of your own, balance the
scales. Nobody owes you anything, nothing unfair about it.
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From: guest (ef)
, 99 months, post #4 |
Inequality? you got to be kidding me, the people that are in the tg
community that enjoy this site and others are a minority of people
that have very few avenues to turn to for embracing there
sexuality, so using the word Inequality is a bit rich. I just hope
your not another troll creating drama, I see it a lot with threads
created with a touch of flame
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From: Weirdoid
, 99 months, post #5 |
It does suck and feels unfair but their is nothing you can do about
it without changing culture. I like girly acting FtM and other
things that give a male body female behavioral or physical traits
and often get depressed on its absence. It feels as if the world
decided to vote you out of existence behind your back. But I sort
of come to understand the why's behind this. Not sure how true
these whys are but between reading and observation I picked up the
following.
1. Gender expression is more free to be expressed among those
assigned female than those assigned male making the need less
strong in cis women.
2. Homophobia is hammered into the minds of men from a young age.
Fantasizing on a male form has been associated with disgust.
3. The stoic and Macho nature of male society limits expression of
emotional needs so it becomes more likely for those assigned male
to tie their emotional needs to their sexual fantasies and form
fetishes. Those assigned female get more emotional freedom and tend
to be more likely to view fetishes with fear or disgust.
4. Transgender fetishism is strongly linked to the admiration or
desire of a female form. Thus tends to attract heterosexual cis men
and trans women. The two groups least likely to be drawn to the
idea of a FtM change.
5. In general more transition from MtF then from FtM so desire for
change seems more common in people assigned male at birth.
It sucks but I have no idea how to change it.
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From: guest
, 99 months, post #6 |
People are simply more likely to have a MtF fetish. Nothing wrong
with that. You're nobody's victim here.
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From: guest (penguinattack)
, 99 months, post #7 |
It's fiction. Not reality.
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From: guest (halfharpy)
, 99 months, post #8 |
Ok, some people took offense of my choice of words and I apologise
as English is not my first language. After checking I think
"imbalance" rather than “inequality” is a better word to convey
what I want to say. Maybe admin can help to change the title.
However to call me troll is a bit extreme though. Just because you
disagree with people doesn't mean they must be troll or something.
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From: guest
, 99 months, post #9 |
More people enjoy MtF transformation vs FtM. It's seriously that
simple.
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From: guest (Harold)
, 99 months, post #10 |
There are a lot of Chinese idol- videos. They also have a lot of
the fall down the stairs and bump their head swaps too.
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From: guest
, 99 months, post #11 |
The level of ettique is not at calling people trolls but trying to
get them fired by telling people that you are something. So sack up
and get called names.
And if you were talking about imbalance then make some
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From: guest (UnJon)
, 99 months, post #12 |
@Weirdoid
" things that give a male body female behavioral or physical
traits"
Well, there are many crossdressing stories in Fictionmania which
seem fit your taste...
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From: guest
, 80 months, post #13 |
@UnJon,
I don't think he meant crossdressing stories?
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From: guest (Luv_To_Switch_Bods)
, 80 months, post #14 |
I really like MTF body swaps, transformations, etc.
but I do feel for the people who like FTM. It would
be cool to see more of it.
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From: guest
, 80 months, post #15 |
M2F is related to crossdressing, and that is exclusively male since
women can wear men's clothes without it being commented on which
probably accounts for the lack of F2M content.
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From: Regular Visitor
, 80 months, post #16 |
I think it's because most people who enjoy FtM, like myself, are
gay (not sure if this is accurate, just a feeling I have). So, it
might be about the transformation fetish combined with attraction
to the male physique.
Also, I don't think it's unfair, it's just less likely for people
to get pleasure from it. I don't find it particularly hard to find
FtM or MtM media. Fortunately, this was never was a problem for me.
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From: Regular Visitor
, 80 months, post #17 |
My previous answer was somewhat confusing, I tried to imply that
it's perfectly understandable that there are less FtM-driven
stories because they're not as desired as MtF-driven.
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From: guest (MrInternetMan)
, 80 months, post #18 |
Probably because in a lot of situations, it's more about the
fantasy than the exploration of identity.
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From: guest (Fih)
, 18 months, post #19 |
I personally find FTM stories unappealing...
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From: guest
, 18 months, post #20 |
This might be controversial and I don't mean to be rude or start
any kind of flame war, but I believe one reason for the disparity
is the fact that on this society men are valued more than women so
FTM transformations could be considered as trading up in life and
less interesting. Also, it is always funny to see someone dominant
lose their position and have to deal with things other people have
to deal with.
Also, men have it easy in so many ways over women that it is more
interesting to write MTF fantasies. Things as simple as going out
are so ordinary and easy for men that they are hardly interesting.
Men just shave and wear normal clothes while women have to worry
about their hairdo, make up, a huge range of clothes to choose
from, decide how much leg or cleavage they want to show, to use
heels or flats shoes, so many things that make life both more
complicated and exciting.
About romance, if a guy doesn't want it he can just do nothing and
go on with his life, while women receive all kinds of unasked
attention, that makes for more avenues to explore.
Finally, I believe many men long to be able to freely express
themselves, be able to show emotion, to cry and laugh freely which
are things usually associated with women but shunned in men. Maybe
it is just that more men dream of being women than women dream to
be men.
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