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From: guest
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From: guest
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #23 |
"I've never been anally penetrated, but I've heard that it hurts a
lot, and only seldom rewards any pleasure. Much tearing and pain is
involved."
Haha, Jayzie, that's only really when the man doesn't know what
he's doing and rushes it. Sex can be bad and painful regardless of
what sex you are or which sex you engage in intercourse with. Anal
sex can be very pleasurable if a man takes his time with you,
allowing you to relax your body, and of course use some lubricant.
Most people do not realize that the male body has its own unique G
spot. The male G-Spot is the prostate, which through anal sex can
be stimulated.
Generally that's why men enjoy it more-so then women, because men
have that g-spot, and women don't have one back there.
Your characterization of that type of sex is only accurate if a man
doesn't know what he is doing or doesn't take his time.
But when a man is experienced and takes his time, it is a wonderful
experience filled with pleasure. That's from my own personal
experience as well as reading up on the subject.
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #24 |
My apologies for the multiple posts, I went to correct my post and
for some reason it ended up being posted multiple times. Sorry that
was an accident. I would delete two of my posts, but I lack the
power to do so.
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From: cj
, 138 months, post #25 |
" I would delete two of my posts, but I lack the power to do so."
Got that for you.
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From: guest (solenthas)
, 138 months, post #26 |
I'd either be a lesbian or bi with a preference for women.
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #27 |
Vaginal penetration would be a must for most males if they were in
female bodies and having sex with a man but I also think they would
want a man to rub them down there also. They'd also want their
breasts rubbed too. Would sex be different for males in female
bodies in the sense that they would now be possible to get pregnant
since they would be female and have vaginas? Would there be a fear
of that before, during, and after sex? Or would you make your man
wear a rubber?
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From: guest (Jayzie)
, 138 months, post #28 |
Guest posting #23 makes a good point. Although I refuse to sleep
with a man as a male, it would be an interesting form of
masturbation.
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #29 |
So back to the original question, are we throwing in the
possibility that you may become pregnant in your new female body if
you sleep with a man? Would males in female bodies still want to be
penetrated by men if there was a possibility they would get
pregnant?
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From: Forestier
, 138 months, post #30 |
Would males in female bodies still want to be penetrated by men if
there was a possibility they would get pregnant?
Women have lived with that for millennia, and men are not dumber
than they are.
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From: cj
, 138 months, post #31 |
"Would males in female bodies still want to be penetrated by men if
there was a possibility they would get pregnant?"
Yes. Perhaps not all of them - but some would accept the
possibility, and others would hope for and welcome it.
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From: guest (lily)
, 138 months, post #32 |
cj has it. I am guessing that a significant number of men
transformed into women would not only have sex with men, but would
choose to become pregnant at some point.
The urge to reproduce is strong in both men and women. For some,
the ability to conceive and carry a child would be an opportunity,
not something to be avoided at the cost of celibacy, nor a reason
to pursue only lesbian sexual relationships.
In any case, many anatomically male persons have
become women and researchers have asked some of them this very
question.
This study
(url=http://www.springerlink.com/index/PU44808U15Q78K21.pdf)
followed 20 MtF transwomen through SRS. 6 of the participants in
the study reported that their sexual preference changed from
gynophilic to androphilic after transition.
Anne Lawrence published this study
, (http://www.springerlink.com/index/U25657804104W6V7.pdf) of 232
post-op transwomen, which included a review of previous research
into the question. Most of the paper is gibberish, as Dr. Lawrence
struggles to fit the participants into the whimsical and
unsupported "androphilic" "autogynephilic" model, but it might be
interesting to someone with the time to try to tease out the
relevant comparisons. The short answer here, is that a little more
than half of the participants reported being exclusively gynephilic
before transition, while only 25% reports that they were
exclusively attracted to women after transition.
There was another study from the Nehterlands, which I cannot locate
right now, which followed 60+ MtF transsexuals and found that about
1:4 reported a change in orientation from exclusively gynephilic
before transition to exclusively androphilic after transition.
It is interesting to note how things have changed over the last 30
years. In the 198os it was general accepted that all MTF
transsexuals started out as "heterosexual" men. Gay men were often
rejected for HRT and SRS on the grounds that their desire to
transition was a neurotic rejection of their homosexuality.
In fact, admitting that you got any kind of pleasure from sex in
your non-congruent body was generally regarded as possible grounds
for disqualification. If you were a man, who married and fathered
children, you were expected to say that you only did thees things
in an effort to suppress your female identity.
It was also expected that straight men transtioned to become
straight women. It was something of a revolution when Kate
Bornstein got her therapist to sign off on her reassignment despite
her insistence that she did not want a vagina so that she could put
a penis into it. There were other transsexual lesbians before Kate,
but they mostly had to lie to their therapists to get approval
letters.
Now, among young and early transitioning MTFs, it is not at all
unusual to identify as lesbian before transition.
A generation ago, saying that were an assigned-male-at-birth
homosexual woman would likely get you diagnosed as a heterosexual
cross dresser or a pathologically misandristic neurotic (probably
because your mother hated men, or some other neo-freudian
nonsense).
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #33 |
Interesting study you have there Lily.
The only issue would be the problem of self report credibility.
For instance, maybe before the man transitioned into a woman, he
had been somewhat attracted to men, but never admitted to it, due
to fear and anxiety that it is unacceptable to have such feelings
as a anatomical male, but after they become a woman they feel
emboldened and empowered to embrace that portion of their
sexuality. Or perhaps they just never confronted to their desire
for the old same sex before?
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #34 |
- 33 you're so right, Im a mtf transsexual, and before srs I didn't
think think of having a relationship with a man. Thats because I
didnt want to have sex as a man.
Almost all people are bisexual more or less, its just be usually
didnt found the correct person, or are too scared to try, since our
society still sees bisexuality as a sin.
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #35 |
I don't think I would wear pants if I was placed in a woman's body.
I'd wear skirts and dresses that showed off my legs, butt, breasts,
hips, and curves. If I have to be female, I want to look good and
attractive. I would definitely use that to my advantage and to get
men to do things for me.
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From: guest (lily)
, 138 months, post #36 |
I want to look good and attractive. I would definitely use that to
my advantage and to get men to do things for me.
Yeah, its nice to dress up and show off. Its also nice to be left
the hell alone sometimes. You would, I think, find that being on
display gets old pretty quickly. As useful as it may be to have
your furniture moved by men who want to look down your blouse,
there are also lots of men who feel entitled to look up your skirt
just because you are wearing one.
Not that wearing slouchy old jeans and a shapeless sweatshirt will
keep the dedicated sleaze balls from leering and making rude/lewd
comments. However, subdued and sexless clothes do less to excite
the amateur
/casual sleaze balls and -- so -- can make for more pleasant trip
to the grocery store.
Plus which, skirts and dresses get COLD. Its was just about 1�C
this morning where I live. I had to go to lunch with some
colleagues; kind of a formal thing for which I needed to be in
business attire. I thought about a skirt and hose, but one step
outside and it had to be a pant-suit. Waiting for the bus in a
skirt on a cold day, even with a long coat over, is miserable
experience.
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From: cj
, 138 months, post #37 |
Thanks for the dress/skirt insight lily.
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #38 |
If I wear a skirt or dress in a female body, I will have a taser or
gun in my purse, LOL. I would embrace the wind up that would be
blowing up my butt and crotch when wearing skirts or dress.
Besides, it would be interesting to go to a public restroom and not
have to unzip my pants to pee. All I would have to do is just raise
up or lower my panties and skirt or dress and hosiery if I'm
wearing hose. I would use caution when dressing but at the same
time if I saw a lonely sad guy that was probably single and had
nothing good going in his life, I might give him an upskirt moment
to cheer him up but that would be it and it would be in a public
place during the day.
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #39 |
@ Poster #38
Unless of course that "sad lonely man" was gay, then you might have
just further ruined his day, lol!
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From: guest
, 138 months, post #40 |
"I want to look good and attractive. I would definitely use that to
my advantage and to get men to do things for me. "
I always treat men and women equally. I never give women special
attention. I hold doors for both men and women, as I believe in
treating the sexes equally.
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